When someone posts a picture of their baby to r/aww.

billiegoat · 2012-05-26T00:08:35.747132+00:00

Yeah that's true. But I wanted kids so I was happy to do the balancing act. I think I've found a way to maintain my sense of self and enjoy raising children at the same time. But yeah, I realize not everyone wants them, or would be happy with them.

karina_notkatrina · 2012-05-26T00:07:08.103589+00:00

Wow, I've never gotten one specifically for a pump, I'm jealous! I always get 20% off a baby item. They mean baby item. I couldn't use it on things considered for a toddler. If you ever get one of those, check the fine print. It's insane.

dialinga481 · 2012-05-25T18:19:49.556916+00:00

Some moms do better with a manual than an electric. I like the Medela Harmony best, I think it fits the hand better. I was given an Ameda in the hospital and I absolutely hated it. They are a nice alternative to really expensive electric pumps and it will work just fine for what you need it for.

Monfamille · 2012-05-25T18:16:08.880253+00:00

Ah well my situation may be different, but recovery was easy peasy. By the time I left the hospital we stopped at the grocery store on the way home and I felt good. I was a slow walker, but I recovered pretty easily. My only tip is, if you happen to end up with the c-section, just make sure you listen to the nurses, stay ahead of the pain with meds, and get out of bed when they tell you to. I think moving is the key to recovery.

Monfamille · 2012-05-25T17:54:02.407201+00:00

I had a c-section, and it wasn't nearly as bad as I had feared. Just offering some relief so you don't feel stressed about it if it does happen. But hopefully it won't :)

karina_notkatrina · 2012-05-25T17:50:51.910861+00:00

Why raz you for it? It's a need just like bottles and pacifiers etc. Plus it's expensive, so very nice for someone to gift for you. Then again, I work at WIC, so breast pumps are normal conversation anyway.

karina_notkatrina · 2012-05-25T17:49:09.745454+00:00

Not sure about Target, but BRU coupons never allow for discounts on pumps. They are so strict about their coupons.

billiegoat · 2012-05-25T17:20:21.229656+00:00

Nah, only if you let it. You change a bit, and you find happiness in seeing the world through their eyes. But you have to remember to maintain your own identity and continue with the things you enjoyed before kids. It just becomes more of a balancing act.

billiegoat · 2012-05-25T17:17:50.245031+00:00

I'm not a big fan of putting photos of my kid on the internet in general. I wouldn't want someone doing it to me, so why do it to them?

olivine1010 · 1 day

It's about the same deal you can get on cottonbabies.com. They do buy 5 get one free, free shipping on all orders. So if you don't need all twelve there's a smaller option for you as well.

sports2012 · 2 days

I'm pregnant and whenever my mother in law knows I've been to the doctor she asks me about it on my facebook. I delete her comments every damned time. 1) It's not everyone's business that I had an appointment and 2) What if it went badly? Would I really put it on facebook? I'd rather stay a bit more private.

danger_mcboom · 2 days

Findlay, but I think it's the same owner for those locations. Also I hate their commercials.

danger_mcboom · 3 days

For me this ranks up there with car dealerships that put a sticker on their cars you buy. No thanks, I'm gonna remove that. Our local Kia dealership goes so far as to etch Taylor on the chrome on the back of the cars. So hideous.

LadyAlainn · 4 days

You mostly hear the shitty stories. Everyone is quick to share their horror stories. And I can't say it's all sunshine and rainbows, there were times I wanted to stop (but I also blame some ppd for that). I'm glad I stuck with it, and I hope you end up enjoying it too.

vluk818 · 4 days

I've already read that one about 6 times so far today. It's a favorite here. My kid better end up a genius for as much as he demands I read to him :)

sausage_gravy · 4 days

I used to nurse my first while cooking dinner. I figure I'll just get better at multitasking like that with this second one. I will have a 2 year old when this baby is born, so I've had concerns about this as well.

sunflower23 · 4 days

Mine was born at 9# 4 oz and was in newborn diapers for a very short time. Keep in mind any unopened diapers can usually be exchanged for a different size.

Nursing bras: Stick with cotton and it will stretch. But I found that my breasts didn't change dramatically in size when my milk came in, so just wait and see. I saw someone recommended a sleep bra. That would probably be perfect.

kpaw · 4 days

I've been feeling mine for a couple weeks and my husband got to feel it last night. So wonderful!!

deadly_designer · 4 days

I always tell my husband I wish he could experience what I experience daily. Not only to feel some sympathy, but to feel the good stuff too. It's so much harder for them to bond, or feel connected to this pregnancy as they aren't pregnant. What you say is true, your life has changed, but he hasn't felt that change yet. I wish I had an answer for how to fix that. Hopefully he gets the hint soon. His behavior is out of line.

Oh and your libido may come back with a vengeance :)

LadyAlainn · 4 days

I had two weeks of pain and then suddenly it stopped. I used lanolin after every feeding for a while and avoided cracked and bleeding nipples. I never experienced mastitis or thrush. I breastfed in public everywhere I went and was never leered at or insulted in any way. He got occasional bottles at night from my husband while I pumped, to give me some time away from the baby.

I always recommend to try breastfeeding and see how it works for you. You won't know until you experience it. My initial goal was to breastfeed for 6 months, I continued for 14 months. My son was ready to wean before I was. Some women end up loving it, and some don't.

I don't think the breast is best arguments are flawed, but I do think you can have a healthy baby brought up on formula. I absolutely loved breastfeeding once we found our groove. Give it a shot, see if it works for you. You can always change your mind and switch to formula. But it doesn't really work the other way.

Oh I also ended up 10# lighter than my prepregnancy weight. Bonus :)

cookiepaper42 · 4 days

Mine gets moving when my laptop rests on my belly. I love it.

LXY820 · 4 days

I have 34D's, so not really ginormous or anything and I still have trouble finding a swim suit that is modest enough for me. I'm no prude, but I like to feel "locked in". It's nearly impossible to find decent swim suits.

Dino1845 · 5 days

I probably shouldn't be proud of that. But I laughed very hard and then had to explain to my husband what was so funny. Thank you for that :)

Dino1845 · 5 days

Aw man! Mine gets stored in a bag that says "My mommy's milk". Maybe she should invest in some. It's like a nice warning label.

Dino1845 · 5 days

I'm honored. That's a first for me (to my knowledge).

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