23/m/6'0"/180lbs. I've always felt unattractive. What should I do? Gain more weight or cut?

ugliestcanadian · 8 days

I tried reading some Eckhart Tolle and it seems like a lot of woo. The same with Byron Katie. Is this really helpful to a lot of people?

ugliestcanadian · 13 days

Then what are the right questions?

ugliestcanadian · 16 days

Thanks for the reply. Sorry you're getting swamped by downvotes for having a different opinion.

I've been on Cipralex (sort of like Celexa+) for around 7 or 8 months now. It's helped, but I want to deal with some of the issues that created my initial anxiety. Apparently therapy helps with that? Like you, I'm skeptical and pessimistic. But I'm always skeptical and pessimistic.

You sound like you have a pretty negative view of the medical profession, so maybe that influenced things? Or maybe you just weren't depressed? I dunno, psych issues are hard to pin down.

I'm glad you were able to overcome your issues through force-of-will, but that hasn't worked for me. This is my last resort. Failing this, I'll just start drinking and doing coke again.

ugliestcanadian · 17 days

Thanks. I was planning on calling tomorrow.

It's not school stress-related, so I was hoping to get a real counselor.

DizzayChizzay · 3 months

You look fine. 4/10. If you fix those dark bags you'll easily be a 6 or a 7.

Also, clean your house. I'm a slob, but even that's too much for me.

ugliestcanadian · 3 months

30's (maybe 35? You look way younger though). 8/10 easily. The forced smile is eh, but you look a lot like Ronnie from the Wire. I'd maul you.

JavelinD · 3 months

lol, well it says Neverwinter/Sword Coast so I'm guessing the Forgotten Realms.

You might also want to avoid mentioning that. It kinda goes with the Protoss shirt. We all have our interests but it seems really... Kid-ish. Just my two cents. This is coming from a guy who wears a Decepticon t-shirt to the gym.

burn_it_with_fire · 3 months

I'm pretty sure they were referring to your rather impressive rack.

haytherelady · 3 months

7.5. You're definitely pretty. But you would probably look better if you smiled more in photos. Also, less eyeshadow.

ugliestcanadian · 3 months

7/10. Very pretty smile, and really nice eyes. I like you with the longer hair in the last picture. You look really friendly, extroverted. But it'a hard to tell from just a picture. I like the diamond nose-stud as well. I wouldn't really go with anything bigger than that (ie. a ring), because it might clash with the rest of your look.

If I saw you, I'd assume you were way out of my league.

ugliestcanadian · 3 months

And you looked at my picture so YOU CAUGHT THE GAY.

Nah, just kidding. Fuck off.

wolfeyes13 · 3 months

7/10 easily. I really like your style. Not a lot of girls can wear it well, but you do.

amisexyyet · 3 months

8.7/10

The first four photos show you definitely have a very beautiful face and a nice little body. The last four photos show a sense of humor. I'm not sure what type you're into, but a good sense of humor goes a long way when actually looking for someone I'd want to date. Your stupid ex didn't know what he had, so fuck'em. Any guy you get would be goddamned lucky to have you.

I don't know the etiquette for this [+] bullshit, but, uh, here you go? Reciprocation requested?

-Athena- · 3 months

Definitely super cute. But you look like the skinniest thing ever. Eat a sandwich. With extra mayo.

EDIT: sorry, guess I should actually be constructive. Eat more, lift some weights. No, you won't get butch. You'll gain weight in all the right places. Then you'll be a 10/10. Just in case being a 9/10 wasn't good enough for you.

cantaloped · 3 months

At the risk of sounding creepy, you have a really nice pair of lips. Add some nice lipstick and you would already be drop dead gorgeous.

ugliestcanadian · 3 months

Thank you.

ugliestcanadian · 3 months

Not going out. Actually just getting over a cold. So all things considered, I guess I look pretty good.

Thanks!

ugliestcanadian · 3 months

Thanks. I don't really know how I should be confident. I know it sounds stupid, but how do you act like a confident person? I'm not loud, and I tend to be a natural introvert.

Also, you look fine. But, like me, the hair has to fucking go. Then I doubt you'll have any problems.

ugliestcanadian · 3 months

I usually do comb it during the day, but by the end of the day it looks crazy unkempt. I don't really know what to do with it.

Also, I've been lifting about 3 months. My major lifts are so-so. I've been cutting down on my fat since Jan. I've probably lost about 5 pounds.

ugliestcanadian · 3 months

Ha. No offence taken. It echoes something an ex said about how I'm "a guy but also a girl" or something along those lines. It also explains why most of my girlfriends have been openly bi. Hell, one of them had been a "lesbian" for four years.

Also, I've experimented pretty extensively with my own gender. I can't say I really enjoyed it all that much. At least, not as much as I enjoy women.

(but gay men really do give better head in general, sorry ladies)

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