I've removed bluequail as a mod, unbanned you, and made you an approved submitter. Sorry about all of the trouble; I really don't know why we have so many mods in the first place.

Buu700 & I are both out of town and don't always have access to the internet, so we haven't been able to really manage the subreddit recently. Sorry again.

Edit: The subreddit has been pretty fucked up for a while. I'm trying to clean it up and remove the trolls, but if you're having issues, being harassed, trolled, or anything of the like, try heading to http://www.reddit.com/r/relationships.