A puppy that we found this morning under our car.

justsomedude24 · 4 days

WHY CAN'T I FIND PUPPIES UNDER MY CAR?

blinkworks · 4 days

This is actually quite sad.

andhollysays · 4 days

I would never exercise without one.

puttputt · 5 days

Ha! That's awesome! /high five

Walrustachio · 5 days

I would add that you should be more considerate of her from now on. If you didn't realized that what you were doing was hurtful to her (drunk or not), that's a good indication that you aren't (as a healthy habit) thinking about how your actions would affect your SO as much as you probably should. I'm sure you care and love her, but trust me when I say that if you don't pay attention to yourself and make an effort to, not only apologize for your mistakes, but prevent them in the future, your gf might be in for a lot of heartache in the future. It's up to you whether or not you want to send her through something like that.

And don't worry, mistakes happen to the best of people. The most important part is making sure you've "learned your lesson," so to say. Apologizing is the first step though and I think you did a good job of that. Good luck! :)

puttputt · 5 days

FELLOW UBC ENGINEER(S)!

slowpig38 · 5 days

askdalsfajalkgjadsf SO CUTE.

cultofrazer · 2 months

D'awwwww... Hotshot... :'(

pfkc_meow · 2 months

My boyfriend isn't really big on "trying" to be stylish. He prefers comfort to just looking good any day; I personally think that his style is handsome anyway so that works!

So yea, he's not someone who would typically get influenced by other people's opinions of his style but whenever I compliment his outfit, for example... he doesn't say much but say "thank you" in the moment... but after a few days, I start to notice that the outfit that I complimented is all he wears! xD

ahhhh he's so cute... especially when he tries not to be haha <3

saiuke · 2 months

Thanks for this advice! I was just wondering though: how long exactly is a good "short break"?

JustBuzzin · 2 months

I'm OLDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD :(

pickledinevil · 2 months

Yea I do... hence why I like my boyfriend and his brother more than a lot of my girl friends ಠ_ಠ I mean, my female friends nice and all... but we just don't share the same love of video games as we do other things (and that's ok too!)

99-LS1-SS · 2 months

Speaking of which... have you brought this up with your wife? If so, what does she think of the matter?

playingpants · 2 months

I agree with you; I just don't understand why...

I mean, there's always adoption if she really wanted to raise a child but maybe that wasn't an option for her or something..? Don't get me wrong, shit happens, but seriously, if you know the risks of having a child at 42 AND so many of your attempts have already caused much death, why would you continuously pursue this "goal"? How can you enjoy the presence of your 10th child knowing that you went through 9 other lives to have her? I guess all I can say is that I hope those other 9 lives were worth it.

bfkill · 2 months

At least for me, there's no "instant" thing. What I mean is that vibe you want is best acquired through continual affection towards your girlfriend. Doesn't mean you have to be clingy; means that you have to keep her happy.

That's the "best" way to make me want to have sex and actually enjoy it~ buuuuuuut you know, formal wear is pretty damn sexy too! Mmmm dress shirts... collars... ties... suits... I likes them all <3

hebreakslate · 2 months

My boyfriends underwear... not the fresh ones...

True Story :/

throwaway-987123 · 2 months

What if you do your part but he doesn't do his?

throwaway-987123 · 2 months

But I made the mistake of bringing it up the first few times while being extremely emotional, and hormonal, which makes him shut down (which I sorta understand). Since then, if I try to bring it up in a calm manner, he automatically assumes that I am (or going to be) emotional again, so he shuts down.

THIS! I can't talk to my boyfriend about anything serious like this anymore. He automatically shuts down and becomes extremely difficult and uncooperative.

Just wondering but what can you do at times like this?

throwaway-987123 · 2 months

I grew up in a household that said "I love you" frequently throughout the day, whereas he grew up rarely saying it.

Same here...

He does lots of things (big and small) to show that he cares greatly for me. Not so much romantic gestures (he generally thinks that kind of stuff is super cheesy), but gestures that shows he cares about my well-being and happiness. That's usually enough to keep me content and feeling secure. But once in a while (usually when I'm hormonal, so that probably plays a part in it), I start to doubt myself.

Me too..

I suppose I'm looking for "Yes, I feel the same way about you. You're so wonderful, I feel lucky to have you."

YES...

I'm so glad I read this! I don't really have any "advice" to give you (I'm sorry!) because I'm in the same boat as you right now... For so long, I thought that it was just me who was so insecure to require verbal affirmation from my boyfriend. I always hear people calling that something that makes you "weak" so I tried to never bring it up with him... and because of that, I sometimes go for days feeling like shit, just "assuming" that he cares for me the most.

All I can say is that I know how you feel and that you're not alone... Hope everything works out well.

meltshake · 2 months

It's so fluffy, I'm gonna die!

saiuke

TROPHY CASE

you'll need to login or register to do that

create a new account

login