Boyfriend has been talking dirty online with other women... is this cheating?

facail · 1 day

I say yes. I also will say I have met people who don't consider kissing other people while black out drunk cheating and I for sure do. It depends on the boundaries you set when you become a couple.

I would be upset if I were you and I would call it quits but that's just me..

ramble__on · 2 months

He is we have his papers and vet records. He's just a giant, also a nice thick coat.

blah854654 · 9 months

Nobody can change unless they themselves wants to change, him drinking while you're not around shows that he isn't ready to quit. The best thing for you, as hard as it is, is to move on.

thething22 · 9 months

They would make a great team

anuaaaaa · 9 months

Well we met up and talked and he told me how he felt and that he didn't feel he could handle being in a relationship anymore and the reasons why. I was crying and acting like an idiot, we did try to be friends for a bit after but that didn't work at the time.

IMO you should be kind to her and calm, don't yell, tell her exactly how you feel and be specific about the problem with her. Tell her what actions she took that hurt you and why the did hurt you. Also explain to her that they way your relationship is is not healthy for either of you.

I understand why you want to help her and be a kind person, it may hurt to see upset, but you need to make yourself happy. In a year or two she may come around or she may not, but either way you will be in a much better place.

Hope it works out for you.

putaflaka · 9 months

Collar bone, and the Adonis belt. Arms too, everything about arms...

Edit: My post was just a general post about a man's body.

anuaaaaa · 9 months

I was in the same position as her, but I was 19 and I wasn't that bad and I will tell you from experience, she won't learn from you trying to help her out all the time. You need to cut contact completely, it is possible. Talk to your friends about it and tell them you don't want to be involved with her or hear about her while you're with them. They don't have to stop being friends with her because you are however they should be able to respect you if you ask them not to talk about her to you and such. If they can't do that they really aren't that good of friends.

The bottom line is this: She needs to learn how to be happy on her own, without having a man in her life. She's insecure, scared about life, and manipulative. Unless she learns this then I am sorry but you will have to keep putting up with the BS. It's better for both of you to part ways. Meeting my ex, being treated like I deserved, then being dumped for being insecure and the drama I surrounded myself with was probably the best thing that ever happened to me. I think it will be tough for her for a while but in a year or two she will be thanking you. She just needs to grow into herself and be alone.

sex_noob · 9 months

No sugar cranberry juice. You should mix it with water half and half. It's not the best tasting thing ever, very bitter, however it will help her. Also cranberry extract pills. Take 2 every day no matter if you're having sex or not as she can get a UTI in other ways as well.

WellandOne · 9 months

If she is there for just the money and knows how to stand up for herself then there really is nothing to stress about. Plus if she decides to cheat on you or flirt hard with other guys it will show you that your relationship really isn't what you think it is and you're probably better off. I have worked in a couple different bars and I will tell you she will make great money compared to dq, just make sure she's smart with it too. It is really easy to have cash come and then go faster than you know it when working in a bar.

Pravusmentis · 9 months

This

Afrodium · 9 months

Her birth control may be effecting it as well, if you notice during different times of the month it's more of a problem that could be it. Try lube, and maybe try switching birth control pills as well.

alwayspro · 9 months

You sir deserve to feel awesome.

findtheswimmingpool · 9 months

I am a girl and I think this is a bad idea. Most women (I can't speak for all) don't really like that, I find if you stick to a steady up and down motion over her clit or side to side and vary the pressure you will get better results. Let her hips guide you, she will adjust herself to where it feels good. Also talk with her, ask her what she likes, what feels good. Communication is key.

pajamaway · 9 months

I agree with you both, people change but it's never overnight. Personal space is sometimes needed to reflect but staying optimistic and keeping the door open is significant as well.

AutumnPeople · 9 months

I vote Old Spice.

OversizedSpoon · 10 months

Female here and I like cold hands too. If my body is warm the cold is a really nice contrast and makes the sensation much more intense I find.

throwuway · 10 months

Getting touched while sleeping is a big fettish of mine too

XCygon · 10 months

Love it.

strncpy · 10 months

Liquor servers it only goes up to 9 dollars an hour and stops there because they assume patrons will be tipping. Also there is a high tip out, I have worked as a server in a couple bars and pubs and on an average night I am tipping out 20-70 dollars that gets divided between barbacks and bussers along with HOH. It's not an easy job and it is demanding and I can assure you a lot of people would not be doing that job if you didn't get tipped. Now I am not saying everyone deserves to be tipped, there has been times where I have not tipped because the service was crap. It is something that is kind to do and I may be biased but if you don't have the money to throw down the extra couple dollars after a meal then don't go out to a restaurant where you expect table service.

Happyjacker · 10 months

I agree, but really anything from Zeppelin, or Fleetwood Mac

ramble__on

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