Anybody else find this shocking? Possibly trigger: Rape

helllfire · 1 day

I'm so sorry you were abused twice in that way.

did you press charges against your assailant? Hope that's not too forward of a question. My first thought would be to get my power back, by letting the motherfucker squirm in a courtroom.

helllfire · 1 day

or that there's a value system you rate yourselves by, dependent entirely on how "fuckable" you are...?

We as women do this to ourselves. In a 21st century first world country, we have the option to participate in this stone age nonsense. We can let go of this imagined ladder of worth at any time.

If you didn't call yourself a "fug", how would you describe yourself?

meeenglish · 2 days

Taste preference, mostly. I'd had tequila cake before, and the liquor taste was overpowering. I'm sure there's a way to do it right, but I didn't wanna risk it. Vodka is a lot more mild.

meeenglish · 3 days

'twas. I had never baked with vodka before, but the tangy-salty-sweet flavors worked well with it.

meeenglish · 3 days

Thanks. Yeah, I summed up the issue with "dishonesty" so not to go off on a tangent. But basically my close friend had been secretly harboring resentments against me for years. Normally I would be apologetic, but what she's been angry about is unreasonable to me.

Basically, she's been keeping score financially over the last few years, and decided that I haven't given an equal amount to her monetarily. I told her my love for someone can't be monetarily quantified, and I don't know what to tell her because I have a limited income. It's very sad because I love her, but that level of materialism, plus the years of lying about her anger, aren't going to work for a friendship.

meeenglish · 3 days

interesting how does it help with your physical pain?

kneaders · 5 days

yikes. the makeup and styling age her 10-20 years.

This is another shot of her recently, looking much more like the Lisa Turtle we knew

ravellover · 5 days

Will you experiment at all before marriage? Familiarizing yourself with your fiance's body could at least give you an idea about sexual compatibility.

Also, keep in mind that if you watch a lot of porn, you're seeing women who have stretched themselves out because it's their job. I'm a woman, and sometimes when I watch porn I think "maaan, there's no way that dude would fit in me." Normal women's vagina muscles can snap back pretty tight. Especially if your wife will also be a virgin, or relatively inexperienced.

Basically, just don't sweat it. It's only stressful because it's unfamiliar, and off limits for now. Sex is fun. Hope when you get married you make up for a lost time!

f1ncher · 5 days

interesting. source?

mosquis · 5 days

ME TOO.

After I saw this episode as a kid I told my mom we could only get kosher all-beef franks.

Norwegian1 · 8 days

dat vacant stare.

Norwegian1 · 8 days

Am I the only one who finds her really uninteresting? Airhead = nawt hawt.

pulloverman · 9 days

I was 24 and he's 43. Just happened a few months ago. It was perfect because we've known eachother for a few years, and had become close friends, so it was this effortless expression of warmth and love.

I remember how strong his hands were, how confident he was in his own skin. It made me realize what a man feels like, and now I'll never settle for less.

PsychoticRobotic · 14 days

On the one hand, I get it. If I was raised as a woman in 1950's America, I would be disturbed by what I saw.

But now, people who didn't evolve with the times, who cling to hatred and want to get even by destroying the other gender, it's abusive and counterproductive.

PsychoticRobotic · 14 days

I used to be self-destructive too because I'm a woman. I was raised by a radically feminist mother who taught me that softness and kindness were signs of weakness, she even gave me an androgynous name to avoid any trace of femininity. So I grew up hating my gender, thinking we inherently offered nothing of value, unless we acted and sounded like men.

Anyway the point is I get it. Look you're a good person because you have compassion for people who have been victimized. But harming ourselves is misguided, because we are not the enemy. Instead of over-identifying with the offender (in this case, for the superficial reason that you both have a dick between your legs) instead, target that anger at the specific people who are committing the crimes. Join a nonprofit, rally for a cause, be a part of the solution. It's not a male/female conflict, it's a decent-person/fucked-up-person conflict; there are men and women on both sides, trust me.

TLDR; You're not alone. Being a man is a beautiful thing. Being a woman is a beautiful thing. And being whatever the fuck you want, whatever fills your insides with overwhelming joy, be that, because that's a fucking beautiful thing.

PsychoticRobotic · 14 days

I used to subscribe to both /r/feminisms and /r/mensrights , but realized all it did was create a circle jerk for angry people to justify hating the opposite sex. the problem with both of these subreddits is it perpetuates conflict between "us v. them."

When I found /r/twox and /r/oneY , I switched over, because here there are level-headed, rational conversations about what it means to be human. To live inside these bodies, and interact intellectually, socially and sexually with other people who are just trying to live inside of their bodies.

It's good to keep the focus on open-minded dialogue and solution-oriented threads.

meeenglish · 18 days

yeah it felt like my mouth was running a marathon. I changed tempo and strategy every 5-10 minutes, then the last 5 min I massaged his balls with a gentle-gripped hand job, looking at him while my tongue teased his head. That's what finally took us home.

Tzeentch99 · 18 days

this is an interesting fetish to me. Do you know what it is you like about it?

ouixch · 18 days

I don't know that's true. Call a guy a pussy, a faggot, tell him to take his tampon out and "man up", and he'd care. It calls into question his respectability and masculinity (in a really out-dated gender roles kind of way.)

This is comparable to slut-shaming for women. It calls into question her respectability and femininity, in an ignorant and out-dated way.

meeenglish · 18 days

right? though that was after having sex a few times, so when he came I couldn't even tell. It was maybe half a drop. he apologized for taking so long, but I did feel pretty accomplished at the end.

meeenglish · 18 days

good point! I was googling labia exercises, but more frequent workouts in general should help too

LedChelsea · 21 days

Hi lady, have you tried the /r/keto meal plan? It keeps you full, doesn't make you feel deprived, and your energy levels stay consistent throughout the day because you don't have the highs/crashes from sugar.

Another important thing to look at is how you deal with conflict/anxiety. Finding new ways to deal with stress rather than turning to food. Support groups exist too, like Overeaters Anonymous (which is free) and Weight Watchers (..though thats a whole thing you have to pay for, and their groups are based off OA anyway.)

Anyway keep going, and never mistake a single set-back with a permanent failure. Good luck! :)

meeenglish

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