Im lost at sea here, what should I do.

leevs11

Take a month and go to europe. You might not care as much, but you will have a new perspective.

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Eh I just prefer food.

leevs11

Processed soy products are terrible for you. People need the fat that comes along with real food. To have a high protein meal without the fat you are missing serious nutrients. Soy products increase estrogen which causes health issues, especially in men.

If you like them, go for it, but don't try to say that they are actually good for you.

Real food wins out 100% of the time.

leevs11

This is exactly what I always say. If vegetarians don't want to eat meat, why don't they just eat vegetables? Why pretend that they are eating meat? None of these substitutes are any good for you. MMMM Tofurkey!

leevs11

This was a big test and you failed.

I take it you apologized and denied everything. Basically told her you loved her blah blah blah.

You should have just said (in a joking manner): "Yeah she was hot. She hit on me too... practically begged me to make out with her right there. So I told her I'd only do her in the butt because I have a girlfriend and don't want to cheat on her."

She would probably start laughing at you, maybe even hit you on the arm. The point is that you needed to joke about it instead of being defensive.

Then if she was still mad, go on the offensive and tell her that you don't date snoops...

leevs11

http://www.reddit.com/r/self/shirt/bc2vf/im_not_fat_this_is_just_a_spacesuit_for_extreme/

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I'm not going to be pushy about it, I'm just wondering what I can do to help those chances of her making friends. I like the couple friends idea and I think this is more what I'm shooting for.

leevs11

I don't have the book. I just read a lot of the blog postings. The link I sent you has links to some of the more interesting postings on the site.

leevs11

Not being interested in these things doesn't mean that a lot of the content ties together. Mainly with the rejection in conventional wisdom.

leevs11

I agree with the problems of the victim mentality, but understanding a lot of the problems with feminism helps in the bettering yourself with women.

leevs11

I think it started on the health kick for me. I would search around for articles on better exercise and eating right. I found a lot of conventional wisdom kind of stuff, but then started to scratch the surface of the real food & better exercising lifestyle stuff. Then I lost about 30 pounds...

These types of websites led to more positivity type sites. These lead to things on game. I was never actively seeking this, but it makes total sense. I don't even use most of it because I'm in a LTR, but I do use a lot of it in the relationship.

To me it is all about self betterment, without the strive for perfectionism. It's weird how a lot of these things tie together.

leevs11

Dude high school sucks. Read the book of pook (free PDF online). Don't follow it to a T, but take some of the lessons about social interactions from it. You just have to stop over thinking everything and talk to people. Talk to every one. This is pretty hard in high school because high schoolers are closed minded and petty. Try reading lots of stuff like this, learn that people are just people and the social framework of high school is a joke. Next year everything can change for you.

The biggest thing to remember is that nobody actually cares enough to think about you. Everything you are worried about, no one will even notice. Every one is so caught up in themselves they rarely even notice others.

leevs11

This is pretty true. If I found out someone in my high school brought a porn star to prom, he would go down as a ledgend. This would be a story that I told for the rest of my life.

Do it. Reddit donation fund???

leevs11

Alright here's the deal. Check out a whole food and paleo type lifestyle. You'll hear a million things telling you to eat lots of whole grains and limit your fat intake. This is mostly BS. You don't have to believe me, but it works. Eat lots of meat, veggies, fruit, and nuts. Lift heavy things. Exercise hard and fast. Walk a lot. Give it a try for a few months. The cravings for grains and sugar are there at the beginning, but they go away. Plus you can always cheat every once in a while. Here's some interesting reading material: http://www.marksdailyapple.com/primal-blueprint-101/

Give it a shot. You won't be disappointed.

leevs11

No not at all. I keep my house up and work 40 hours a week. It only takes about an hour a week...

leevs11

Look up some training programs.

leevs11

That's cool. I like the name. You could start an independent publishing company and publish redditors writing.

You should also take up fly fishing. I always wanted to try that.

leevs11

Eliminate democracy. Become a tyrant and rule with an iron fist. Take over Canada.

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Oh and Pay off my mortgage.

leevs11

Can I prepay all of my expenses for a trip around the world?

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