[Follow-up] Ended it knowing something I shouldn't have...

guiltyorconfused · 3 months

A girlfriend of 4 years shouldn't care when her boyfriend tells her he's feeling symptoms of depression? LOL

guiltyorconfused · 3 months

Thanks for the point of view!

guiltyorconfused · 3 months

This was my first real relationship, so I have no precedence set regarding "remaining friends". I will see how it goes, but won't forcibly shut her out of my life if we are able to be amicable.

guiltyorconfused · 3 months

Thank you.. The way you worded this response seems to resonate best with my morals and core values.

guiltyorconfused · 3 months

Goddamn this makes me feel good..

guiltyorconfused · 3 months

What I am referring to in the OP happened the night before and to be honest was likely the catalyst for her to actually step up and make up her mind.

guiltyorconfused · 3 months

I think you misread what I said: the guy was a mutual friend of ours. Thanks for your response, it's good to hear from someone who was in a similar situation.

Now, I highly suggest not attempting to stay friends.

Unfortunately she is friends with all my friends, and I with hers. However now that I think of it, it's not like she hung out with mine or me with hers. It was always when we were together that we'd mingle with each others' friends.

I'd lose contact with some good people, but it would not be the end of the world..

guiltyorconfused · 3 months

She is going to come pick up her stuff from my place in the coming days, hence why I posted this so I have a better idea of how to approach what's going to be said.

guiltyorconfused · 3 months

She wants you to know what happened, but she doesn't want to tell you.

I'm not sure about this.. but I do want to move on as I absolutely want to stop feeling like I am

guiltyorconfused · 3 months

What do you mean by never look at her stuff again? I fully intend on never accessing anything private of hers, hence my requesting she immediately change all of her passwords.

We plan on attempting to remain friends after an arbitrary amount of time. I've removed her from FB friends and we can easily avoid seeing each other for however long it takes for both of us to get over things.

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