How do I get my gf to clean up better around her ass?

maitossaway · 24 days

That shit has caused me 22 years of trauma.

FTFY

justateagrapeandi · 1 month

don't use the sensitive ultra thin variety.

seckswithcowz · 1 month

Has that book actually been useful?

timtamboy63 · 1 month

It's misleading to say that it's all in the head. There can be other genuine reasons for not getting it up like poor diet, lack of fitness, tiredness, too much masturbation, excessive porn, death grip, etc.

TaraMcCloseoff · 1 month

Do your ex a favor and send him a link to /r/nofap He would be able to relate to a lot of people who have neglected their girl friends because they thought masturbation was a lot more convenient and quick. I'm sorry to say that your boyfriend's response was quite pathetic. What's unfortunate is that he'll hurt his future partners the same way he hurt and neglected you.

sexthrowaway1212 · 2 months

are you able to masturbate conventionally now?

sexthrowaway1212 · 2 months

If you don't have any knowledge of the subject, please refrain from giving incorrect advice like "it's not weird" or "Everyone is different". The person has a condition called TMS and there is no way he can engage in normal healthy sex if he continues this technique. I know you mean well, but you're just being irresponsible.

sexthrowaway1212 · 2 months

Yes. His technique is weird and damaging. I see a lot of people here spouting their opinions without any knowledge of the subject. Masturbation should simulate actual sex as much as possible. So, if your boyfriend has a habit of thrusting his penis on the bed or another hard surface and that's the ONLY way he could climax, then don't encourage or just accept it.

Ask him to visit the website healthystrokes.com He has Traumatic Masturbatory syndrome (TMS) in which men discover the incorrect way of masturbating which can have serious consequences on his sex life and future relations. You'll find all the info you need along with a support group on that website. Let your boyfriend know that he is not alone and his condition can be treated.

TexasGuy92 · 2 months

I know. Sometimes when I don't masturbate for a few weeks, my penis gets so hard and results in another inch to the size. I was very pleasantly surprised.

TexasGuy92 · 2 months

Is that eight inches?

WeirdIdeasCO · 2 months

Exaggeration much? No, Porn isn't evil. But, it may have some serious consequences on relationships and your sexual well being. Most of it tends to be ignored. No everyone who abstains from porn or masturbation for a limited time is a bible thumper.

WeirdIdeasCO · 2 months

I realize most of the people here are HUGE advocates of porn. But, even moderate (couple of times a week) amount of porn really messed up my perception of women. You really cannot understand this unless and until you go though this yourself. I abstained from Porn, Masturbation and orgasm for 4 weeks, and I started seeing women in new light. I stopped comparing them to fake titties actresses in porn. They were just more beautiful (and not in a lustful way). And, when I resumed having sex I got erect with just the slightest tough. Oral felt 100 times better. And, sex was more intimate. It's a shame that such a large segment of our society is exploited by the porn industry and they don't even know it.

You can either experience this for yourself by being open minded and abstaining for a month or feel free to criticize.

P.S. - I am not religious. This is something I tried just to test my resolve and self discipline and because I was curious.

CTLoveHate · 2 months

We had sex a couple days ago, and it was much more intense than we were used to.

What exactly do you mean by more intense? I've had very intense and kinky sex, but this has never happened.

Throwaway_Waffle · 2 months

Were you attracted to her? In my experience, as long as I find the girl attractive and she is enjoying herself, I don't have any issues.

bladezor · 2 months

Yup. That would be quite an achievement. By bottom to up, I meant, I could only move my penis in upward direction when erect. However, I don't have any control over penis movement when flaccid. Is this normal?

bladezor · 2 months

Helicopter? In the sense that you can move your dick at will in a circular motion? Are you able to do that? For me, the only movement I can exercise is from bottom to up, and that too not much.

bladezor · 2 months

I understand that Kegels are helpful. But, what exactly do you during sex to make them work? Do you contract or relax? And, have you noticed more control over your penis movement as a result of doing Kegels?

Myexcansuckadick · 2 months

was it frustrating? Did he compensate with oral?

angrycornmuffin · 2 months

Do you masturbate a lot? That might be one of the reasons why you last that long. Decreased sensitivity.

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