DAE dislike Jezebel.com?

totallynotabear · 1 day

I like Jezebel, they don't take themselves too seriously. I also don't take them seriously either. Some of the comments really piss me off though.

However, I found that the people that I've met from there are some of the best lady friends I've ever found.

jgarfink · 1 day

Get yourself a DevaChan haircut! I was tired of the triangle look, and this helped tremendously. Avoid Ouidad like the plague, it grows out horribly.

I don't shampoo my hair often. There are some advocates of "no poo" but I get dandruff, so that doesn't work so well for me after 2 weeks. I do a nice rinse leaving with conditioner leaving just a tiny bit behind.

I use some Hawaiian Silk for moisture (can't find it, sorry), then some styling sauce. It does not dry sticky or crunchy at all.

Then that's it!

Poe4Sho · 2 days

Pro-Choice Questions: 1. Is there a particular situation in which you do not think abortion would be the right answer (despite your support of decision)? No. Making limitations on what is "right" is a slippery slope. An unwanted pregnancy will result in an unwanted baby. I feel that there is very little in the way of support for a mother in the United States.

How often do you encounter anti-pro-life people/opinions? 2. Not often mainly because I don't like to argue with people when I know they can't be convinced otherwise.

Have you ever been told you were a bad person for being pro-choice? Yes, because I don't believe in restricting abortions for any reason.
If there is one thing that you would like a pro-life TwoX to consider when thinking of these matters, what is it? Everyone has a story and their reasons for not wanting to be pregnant. Please respect that.

derGraf_ · 2 days

of course. :)

ler6746 · 3 days

"Thank you for your concern, but this is a very private decision between my SO and I." aka Mind your own businesses.

I'm getting passive baby pressure from my mom to the point where I'll joke about it and then say "Welp, I'll cross that bridge when we get there but this is something very private for the both of us."

wifeofcookiemonster · 3 days

For myself, I have an unreasonably irrational fear of STDs mainly because a few family members of mine got HIV.

As for sexy time, it depends on what you want. Are you looking for fun or something serious? Fun = anytime you want. Serious = wait as long as possible.

Hell to the yes you ask for an STD test. Anyone that says "you don't trust me" should make you run to the door."

For me the SO stage probably starts with a heartfelt "I love you" and a realization that I spend lots of my free time with this person.

eck226 · 3 days

At least that has new content everyday. When I listen to DC 101, I feel like I'm time traveling back to 8th grade.

crunkchip · 3 days

Another great option. I think the LPP and PPP would be hard to explain to some folk, so I prefer the other site to give to friends.

For some items, Expatistan has more "respondents" meaning a bigger sample size. They're comparable to Numbeo.

derGraf_ · 3 days

Ok, thanks! Any places to avoid (Berlin + country wide) during the first few months there?

nonchal08 · 3 days

Amsterdam. I really enjoyed it and I was 100% sober for it! I'll be in Berlin by the end of the week, so I may be able to let you know about that city too. :)

nonchal08 · 3 days

Flights - check your itinerary for airport transfers. I almost booked a ticket to Mauritius and my stop was in London Heathrow and a TRANSFER to Gatwick in 4 hours. You are responsible for taking your luggage and the costs of the transfer. It's not worth the extra stress.

Frugal - Keep a waterbottle with you. Don't eat at restaurants in tourist locations (over priced). Stay at the best hostel you can afford to avoid bed bugs, illnesses, stolen items, etc. Bring some cliff bars or something like that with you. Check the local groupon! Bring medications (advil, etc) with you.

I am biased towards England. You can do so much without having to "consume." We were in London for New Years and this entire park turned into the best field party ever - and I usually hate those kinds of things. Also, the British museum is AWESOME.

derGraf_ · 3 days

In general, how are black people (or dark skinned minorities) treated? I'm going to Berlin on Friday and I just want to know what to expect.

For lack of better words to describe myself quickly, I am an oreo, and might end up living in Prenzlauer Berg.

muy_picante · 3 days

I went to Mauritius a few months ago (family there) and was shocked to see the deforestation and erosion FROM THE PLANE. Is it any better from the ground?

rockonancientqueen · 3 days

I am sorry. Reading my comment a few hours later, it looks a little condescending.

Try to talk to him about it. I hope everything works out ok.

crunkchip · 3 days

Visiting is must!

I'll be visiting Berlin this week. I'll also be sure to keep notes on costs, attitudes towards foreigners, women, children, work, etc, etc.

crunkchip · 3 days

It's helped me start my research between Berlin and Washington DC and the information has been insightful. However, I also do my own research like subscribing to expat forums, looking at the local craigslist, and also finding people that also live there to chat with.

Your concerns are completely valid - it really would be awesome to compare down to neighborhoods. I think it's a little unfair to say "it didn't work" because a feature (and a very good one to have) is missing.

rockonancientqueen · 4 days

The only way you're going to feel better is an understanding between the both of you that:

1) He's over her and moved on. They broke up for a reason and are never getting back together. 2) He loves YOU.

Are you worried that she's {pick a word}-er than you? Has there been other trouble in your relationship? Do you have low self esteem? I don't think having a coffee with an ex should bother someone if there was a clear understanding, respect, and trust between the two of you.

If it bothers you that much make a point to have a serious talk about it. Talking about her should make up 10% of the conversation with 90% of the rest focusing on your relationship.

crunkchip · 7 days

Just because you're a partner in a lawfirm dosen't mean you're above the law or king of the hill. When someone complains of "hostile work environement" HR must take it seriously and the rules apply to everyone. This woman is a protected class. You just verbally attecked her because she can't deal with her "motherly duties and a job." A good HR department would see you as a liability.

You're not emotionally or professionally mature enough for your "cutthroat business" (or much less anything else) if you think verbal abuse is a valid and a "necessary" approach for dealing with rejection.

crunkchip · 7 days

There is this book called "Perfect Phrases for the Successful Job Seeker." There are sections of the book that addresses these points with great ideas of what to say when prompted with those questions. It's helped me a lot!

crunkchip · 7 days

And really, I'm surprised you weren't fired. If I saw that behavior tolerated I'd quit.

crunkchip · 7 days

I wasn't going to call you out on it but I do have to say that your story a shitty reason. From your post, it sounds like you’re her boss, a surpervisor, or at the very least, a person who makes low level hiring decisions. I will assume this.

First of all, this is sounds like an isolated incident. If one woman is going to spoil the pot for you, then I probably wouldn't want to work for you anyway. Your prejudice would be palpable and you would be uncomfortable to be around.

My second point: Family Leave Act. If she worked there for a year she is entitled to job protected unpaid leave. You had a week to fire her when she didn't come back. You could have hired a temp in her place - you're a law firm you could have figured out the legality of this.

Third - You didn't want her anyway. She quit probably because you made no accommodations to help her stay (flexible schedule, etc). Even if she never told anyone until the last day you could have stepped up and given every opportunity to be more accommodating.

And finally, verbally attacking anyone for any reason in the workplace is extremely unprofessional and puts your firm in jeopardy. You’re lucky she didn’t come back with a lawsuit citing the magic HR buzzwords of “hostile work environment.” With all relationships, any reason to leave is valid (not necessarily good) because one party doesn’t want to participate for reasons considered irreconcilable.

Tea-in-bed13 · 7 days

Amen.

theglassishalf · 8 days

My friend is a pizza delivery dude. There is this on going prejudice that NE = Poor and Poor = No Tip. I would imagine that would also apply to cabbies as well.

Have you ever tried saying what neighborhood? NE is pretty big!

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