THIS is why I hope they never enable mobile networks on the tube.

muzfuz · 6 days

I'm not sure what you mean?

If you pay for internet usage as part of you monthly bill you'll be able to connect to the wireless down there and from there you can make phone calls through skype or other apps and of course use email.

It will only work when the train is at the platforms though, not in the tunnels. So calling might be a frustrating experience. But emailing to say you'll be late for work because of delays will be easy peasy.

muzfuz · 6 days

Too late.

Virgin are getting down there in time for the olympics.

PennyHorrible77 · 6 days

Empower? The Emperor? Emblazer? MayhEM?

birdsenjoyghost · 14 days

forcing yourself onto someone in any context is not okay and if there are girls who are unsure about how to tell someone that he is imposing on their space then it is your/mine/everyone's responsibility to say it for them.

birdsenjoyghost · 14 days

valid point.

birdsenjoyghost · 14 days

Thanks,

I am going to say something. Not because I feel like I have a right to stop him from doing anything but because I have a right to my opinion and he might understand where I'm coming from if I can figure out how to say it without sounding extremely judgemental.

birdsenjoyghost · 14 days

That's what he's behaving like.

He lives in London, he has dozens of friends, he has a thousand bars to frequent, a million women to hit on. And he lurks, alone in the student bar hitting up college girls.

birdsenjoyghost · 14 days

This is so hypocritical...

Surely by your measure it depends entirely on the individual 45 year old and ultimately if it's two consenting adults then you don't have an issue.

If you're concerned about the older party then you're suggesting that you're not okay with a 33 year old sleeping with a 60 year old. This seems absurd to me.

Surely it's about the 18 year old? Surely?

birdsenjoyghost · 14 days

why is 27 different to 60 but 18 is no different to 27?

birdsenjoyghost · 14 days

so then why is 18 the same as 27?

birdsenjoyghost · 14 days

Nothing. Nothing at all.

I was sexually active from the age of 15 and I'm fine now, but there are things that in retrospect I would have avoided.

I just feel like it would be nice if this guy was more aware of this possibility and more perceptive to it.

birdsenjoyghost · 14 days

I guess so.

In that case, do I have a sexual predator of a friend? Or is it okay for him to behave like this?

birdsenjoyghost · 14 days

They're not mind readers but they have perception and experience.

In fact, experience is key here, he has gotten to a point with a number of girls who have then revealed they don't feel comfortable, why keep pursuing the same girls just to push them to their limit?

birdsenjoyghost · 14 days

He isn't hitting on bubbly party girls. He's hanging around a dive bar taking home girls whose friends already left. The few girls that I've met that he has taken home in this context were shy.

I dunno. Maybe I'm not giving them enough credit. It's just he has a really overpowering personality and sometimes I find him difficult to bat away. I just feel bad for girls (i guess at this stage of any age) who don't know how to tell him to back off.

birdsenjoyghost · 14 days

That's absolutely not my intent.

When I was a teenager I did lots of things that I look back on and cringe at. Some of those things were done under peer pressure.

What I'm trying to say is that it is his responsibility just as much as it is theirs to make sure that everyone is okay with the situation and since he's getting to the point of almost sex when some of them turn around and say they feel uncomfortable, it makes me think that he should have known better.

birdsenjoyghost · 14 days

Thanks for your opinion. I know it's not illegal. It just seems that immaturity and naivety is an odd sexual preference to have in my opinion. The reason I posted is that it doesn't sit comfortably with me because of what I was like at that age and I considered 27 year old to seem REALLY old when I was that young.

I dunno, maybe I'm behaving like an overprotective mother of young girls. It just creeps me out when he swoops in the way he does.

Erisian42 · 15 days

no no no no no no no

birdsenjoyghost · 15 days

English.

mic85 · 16 days

probably had her handbag on her left arm

Squidwaaard · 16 days

Gopals in Soho

birdsenjoyghost · 16 days

I didn't know they supplied the fancier restaurants...Very very interesting.

birdsenjoyghost

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