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[F4R] Looking for friends to play video games with me! by Yonderponderin r4r

[–]Yonderponder[S] 0 points1 point ago

Sure! Send me your user info, please. :D

[F4R] Looking for friends to play video games with me! by Yonderponderin r4r

[–]Yonderponder[S] 0 points1 point ago

That is a fantastic way of putting things. :D Also, happy cake day!

[F4R] Looking for friends to play video games with me! by Yonderponderin r4r

[–]Yonderponder[S] 0 points1 point ago

I don't disagree with you. I rage playing Mario Kart.

[F4R] Looking for friends to play video games with me! by Yonderponderin r4r

[–]Yonderponder[S] 0 points1 point ago

Bad or good, chess is chess and at least you're willing to play it. I can never talk any friends who live by me to. :P

[F4R] Looking for friends to play video games with me! by Yonderponderin r4r

[–]Yonderponder[S] 0 points1 point ago

You're the second person to recommend that game! xD

What? I think brains are cool. :P Neuropsychology is my favorite sub-discipline. Okay, question: What is your favorite thing about psychology? xD

[F4R] Looking for friends to play video games with me! by Yonderponderin r4r

[–]Yonderponder[S] 0 points1 point ago

I am not, unfortunately. I've never played it. D:

[F4R] Looking for friends to play video games with me! by Yonderponderin r4r

[–]Yonderponder[S] 0 points1 point ago

Neat! I used to play trombone back in school, but that's as musically inclined as I've gotten, haha. Always wanted to try the drums, though.

[F4R] Looking for friends to play video games with me! by Yonderponderin r4r

[–]Yonderponder[S] 0 points1 point ago

Both my roommates are Wow addicts. I'm too broke to afford it myself. :P So as far as chatting, what are your interests, hobbies, so on?

R4R - I need someone who will listen to my fat people problems. (I will probably delete this thread fairly quickly.) by MuchoMaas49in r4r

[–]Yonderponder 0 points1 point ago

You can PM me as well if you'd like. I've been trying to lose a bit too and am having my own difficulties. It's frustrating to say the least, no?

These books were, hands down, the epitome of my childhood in elementary school. by Poptarterin books

[–]Yonderponder 19 points20 points ago

My classmates and I used to fight over who got to rent them out from the library. If you were the one, you were cool for a week.

The school librarian ended up having to make a sign up sheet because of all the squabbles.

It's been fun, r/longdistance. This is goodbye, though. by Yonderponderin LongDistance

[–]Yonderponder[S] 0 points1 point ago*

Yeah, I agree. I do appreciate he didn't wait any longer, but at the same time, he should have hinted how he felt earlier. He was always telling me to be honest with him, y'know?

Also, your story is eerily similar. Sorry it didn't work out for you guys. :( I suppose I can more understand where my ex is coming from now - he did say a few similar things to what you typed. I think what I'm most upset about still is the lack of communication leading up to the break though.

It's been fun, r/longdistance. This is goodbye, though. by Yonderponderin LongDistance

[–]Yonderponder[S] 0 points1 point ago

I'm really sorry to hear this. I hope your situation turns out far better than mine. The only thing I can offer is to keep communications open. My ex SO (typing that feels so weird) didn't even hint that he'd changed his mind about living together until the final decision had been settled on in his head. The move would have affected both of us, but we weren't both part of the decision making process. I was left out. Make sure you guys talk to each other about all possible plans to consider - present and future - and any worries you might have, that way one of you won't add on worry after worry after worry until something happens.

You can do this. Keep your head up and stay positive. :)

It's been fun, r/longdistance. This is goodbye, though. by Yonderponderin LongDistance

[–]Yonderponder[S] 0 points1 point ago

It does suck, but hey, whaddya gonna do. If he's not happy with me, then I can't really force him to stay. xD If he's better apart, then so be it. (It's really cheesey, but I just want him to be happy. :P)

It's been fun, r/longdistance. This is goodbye, though. by Yonderponderin LongDistance

[–]Yonderponder[S] 0 points1 point ago

Glad things are working out for you guys! Here's to your relationship staying strong!! :D

It's been fun, r/longdistance. This is goodbye, though. by Yonderponderin LongDistance

[–]Yonderponder[S] 0 points1 point ago

Thanks. :D It's appreciated.

It's been fun, r/longdistance. This is goodbye, though. by Yonderponderin LongDistance

[–]Yonderponder[S] 1 point2 points ago

Same here. xD I've noticed one or two deal breakers since the break that I kinda just... skimmed over... in the relationship, know what I mean? Like I didn't really want to acknowledge that they were there. So this really opened my eyes.

And thanks! :D I appreciate it. Same here, should you ever need an ear, I'm perfectly game.

It's been fun, r/longdistance. This is goodbye, though. by Yonderponderin LongDistance

[–]Yonderponder[S] 4 points5 points ago

I suppose. xD Not sure I want to jump into another relationship quite yet. BUT what is really cool is that since all my friends have found out, they've been making an effort to talk to me more and check if I'm alright on a regular basis. I really love them. :D

It's been fun, r/longdistance. This is goodbye, though. by Yonderponderin LongDistance

[–]Yonderponder[S] 0 points1 point ago

Yeah. If he would have texted, I would have been pissed. xD And had I not been surrounded by buddies, I probably would have reacted worse... so I suppose it was good timing, if such a thing exists in a break up, haha.

Thank you! ;D

It's been fun, r/longdistance. This is goodbye, though. by Yonderponderin LongDistance

[–]Yonderponder[S] 2 points3 points ago

Ahaha, yes. xD A couple of friends are mad he told me over the phone... but a phone call is FAR better than me moving down there just so he could wait and tell me in person.

Yes, I agree. :D

It's been fun, r/longdistance. This is goodbye, though. by Yonderponderin LongDistance

[–]Yonderponder[S] 2 points3 points ago

Thanks. I was surrounded by friends at the time of the break - he had called me during the middle of a trip to DC for college, so I ended up breaking down in front of them, but they all really stepped up to the plate with hugs and jokes and still made the end of my vacation extremely enjoyable. I even got hugs from friends I didn't know were huggers. xD So as far as dealing with the shock of it, I did well. But we'll see how it goes from here, haha.

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