Bacon - Nuff' Said...

Saydrah on Support Colorado's home based kitchens...

2012-02-08T05:33:19.531314+00:00-0700

Hey JustAnotherGirl, I happen to know Morgan Carroll is very Web-savvy. You should email her a link to this thread! I bet she would at least come look, if not comment. She's commented on blog posts I wrote before.

Saydrah on I have a new mission in life...

2012-02-08T04:33:00.068629+00:00-0700

Be sure to have it bronzed so you can pass it off as a bizarre sculpture you made in freshman year. Nobody questions those. Every Sculpture major makes a bronze dick sometime.

Saydrah on A friend and his wife are finalizing the adoption of their daughter who has lived with them for over a year. The trial alone costs $35,000. They have no idea what Reddit is... Can we show them? If that wasn't enough...the daughter sings Edward Sharpe in the video :)

2012-02-08T04:24:57.568620+00:00-0700

It sounds like this couple may be in the position of adopting a child where there is a legal challenge. That's not always something that is known in advance. For instance, a friend of mine has a family member who adopted a child whose biological father was an addict and had never been involved in the child's life (despite frequent invitations) and never paid child support while the child lived with his biological mother. The child was placed in foster care with my friend's family member. After some time, his biological mother agreed to sign for him to be adopted by his foster family, as she understood her own inability to provide care. At this point, the biological father (who had *known* the child was taken into the foster system and had not offered care then) comes out of the woodwork and decides for the first time in the child's life that he wants his paternal rights. The bio-dad was a clearly unfit parent, and was petitioning to take his biological son away from the only safe home he had ever known. The child has emotional disorders (thanks to the abusive bio-mom) which the bio-dad was completely unequipped to handle. So, the foster family decided to fight in court for their adoption. Years and thousands of dollars later, they won, but the judge granted an injunction against changing the child's name, so even though the adoption is now final, the little boy has a different surname than the rest of his family. Sometimes, what should be a straightforward adoption gets really, really thorny and expensive, and at that point dropping it means not following through on a commitment you've made to a human child who now knows you as mom and dad. (Or mom and mom or dad and dad or mom or dad)

Saydrah on I feel like a terrible girlfriend.

2012-02-08T04:14:02.934373+00:00-0700

Sweetheart, I've read all of your comments in this thread, and *for fuck's sake, break up with him.* You love him because... he was your first and before that you didn't have anyone? That's a *terrible* excuse for love! The antithesis of loneliness isn't love, it's companionship, and you *can* get more out of a relationship than just companionship from a selfish wimp who uses tears to get his way and makes you feel ugly. Listen. I've been there. Stayed with my first for about four years more than I should have. But I finally ended it, we were both better off, and we're still friends. Don't wait four or six or twenty years to stand up for yourself and make a change. This guy is taking advantage and not treating you right because he knows you're afraid to be alone. If you're anywhere near Denver, break up with this guy, and we are going out and we will find you a rebound in under twenty minutes. It is *not* hard to find someone new. It's hard to find love, yes, but guess what? You haven't found it yet. What you found is called codependency. You can settle for that, or you can keep looking and find love, in due time.

Saydrah on Drama stalwort Saydrah kicks up an anti-seddit / pro-SRS shitstorm in OkCupid

2012-02-06T17:00:34.363695-07:00-0700

Lol. Upvoted.

Saydrah on Drama stalwort Saydrah kicks up an anti-seddit / pro-SRS shitstorm in OkCupid

2012-02-06T23:58:03.625547+00:00-0700

Lolwut? Homie, install one of those nifty plugins that let you see up/down counts, and go back like eight or ten pages in my comment history. I think the only person who upvotes everything I post is ViolentAcrez, and that's because he's trolling us all. There was about a year where I had a huge following of downvote bots. Alienth fixed them a while back, although I've asked him and he has no idea what he changed that had that side effect. Overnight they just disappeared after some changes that should have had no relation to voting were made. I suppose it's possible that some part of the auto-voting code is still trying to counteract them, but I certainly don't see auto-upvotes on most comments. I stay out of the main subreddits because I've unsubscribed from all of them. I use Hubski for mainstream news now. I have like 90,000 comment karma to blow through, downvotes don't really bother me.

Theory 12: Saydrah is a boy and a virgin and his mom folds his undies.

Sat, 04 Feb 2012 06:33:31 -0700

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Saydrah on IamA guy who has had great success on OKCupid despite not being exceptionally good-looking. AMA.

2012-02-03T07:18:11.203759-07:00-0700

Oh, just try me, make a throwaway and do a "I'm a Rules Girl!" AMA. I fucking hate that shit, too.

Saydrah on IamA guy who has had great success on OKCupid despite not being exceptionally good-looking. AMA.

2012-02-02T23:49:41.481878-07:00-0700

I think I love you.

Saydrah on I collect dirt and sand.

2012-02-02T23:18:28.024472-07:00-0700

Send me your info and next time I go to the Continental Divide I'll get you some dirt from there :)

Saydrah on IamA guy who has had great success on OKCupid despite not being exceptionally good-looking. AMA.

2012-02-03T05:44:51.438951+00:00-0700

I like how you act like you have some sort of SECRET KNOWLEDGE!!!(!!!!) when fucking *everybody* on Reddit has already read that and formed an opinion one way or another.

Saydrah on Redditor calls out PUA creeper [-12], Y U HATE MEN WHO WANT SEX Redditry ensues

2012-02-02T20:15:11.303271-07:00-0700

MISSION ACCOMPLISHED I AM SPAMMUR FOR COKE AND HOOKERS YOU ALWAYS THOUGHT THAT MEANT COCAINE BUT NO IT IS COKE WE WANT YOU TO ASSOCIATE COKE WITH ORAL SEX BEEP BOOP!

Saydrah on IamA guy who has had great success on OKCupid despite not being exceptionally good-looking. AMA.

2012-02-02T19:19:56.376511-07:00-0700

But it took MONTHS for the smell to fade!

Saydrah on IamA guy who has had great success on OKCupid despite not being exceptionally good-looking. AMA.

2012-02-02T19:12:36.300545-07:00-0700

VA is my Reddit-uncle. I've seen the inside of his house, for realsies. (Not the basement, though.) I've even seen his cats!

Saydrah on IamA guy who has had great success on OKCupid despite not being exceptionally good-looking. AMA.

2012-02-02T18:45:41.406042-07:00-0700

> The rule is always to, "leave a person It's funny how you claim PUA doesn't make people incapable of happy relationships, and yet the rule you're so proud of assumes that the PUA will always be leaving the "target." >I guarantee that the women I date are as good or better at this seduction game as me, and these skills are a precursor to even dating them. I actually believe this is true of most PUAs. No problem with that statement. I just think it's silly that many of them think they're actually perfecting a special skill where they can GET ANY WOMAN, not just the skill of finding women who want the same thing as them. However, "most" =/= all, and my other comments in this thread serve to illustrate the problem I have with the minority who are not just finding the women with the same wants and patterns and habits they have. >how has this played out in your personal life? I'm not totally sure I know what you're asking, but are you asking if I leave people better than I found them? That's really a question for those people, wouldn't you think? I wouldn't presume to have the right to make a judgment like "better/worse" for another human being. I certainly don't think I've damaged anyone by dating them. My longest-term ex is still a good friend and we coparent the dog we raised together. I think he is happier overall than he was before we met, but he was also really young when we met (so was I) and it's hard to be happy at 17.

Saydrah on IamA guy who has had great success on OKCupid despite not being exceptionally good-looking. AMA.

2012-02-02T18:41:16.113812-07:00-0700

Make sure you get the bars put back on the basement window first. You don't want a repeat of what happened the last time, do you?

Saydrah on Theory 1: Saydrah dated someone she couldn't control, and it drove her fragile ego to pieces.

2012-02-02T18:40:32.377599-07:00-0700

Don't babe me, honey!

Saydrah on IamA guy who has had great success on OKCupid despite not being exceptionally good-looking. AMA.

2012-02-02T18:26:38.920433-07:00-0700

VA is my homie. I'm not afraid of trollreddits.

Saydrah on IamA guy who has had great success on OKCupid despite not being exceptionally good-looking. AMA.

2012-02-02T18:25:00.928374-07:00-0700

Uncle Violent, let's adopt an incest Reddit baby! I'll feed it and walk it every day!

Saydrah on Theory 1: Saydrah dated someone she couldn't control, and it drove her fragile ego to pieces.

2012-02-02T18:24:26.919677-07:00-0700

Heh, you're a good sport, props.

Saydrah on IamA guy who has had great success on OKCupid despite not being exceptionally good-looking. AMA.

2012-02-02T18:22:32.479458-07:00-0700

Meh. Lazy. Not archiving.

Theory 11: Saydrah is just crazy. Do not fuck Saydrah.

Thu, 02 Feb 2012 18:20:26 -0700

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Saydrah on IamA guy who has had great success on OKCupid despite not being exceptionally good-looking. AMA.

2012-02-02T18:19:32.859140-07:00-0700

Nice! You got #11, too! Keep going!

Saydrah on Drama stalwort Saydrah kicks up an anti-seddit / pro-SRS shitstorm in OkCupid

2012-02-03T01:18:10.281619+00:00-0700

Drama stalwort sounds like some kind of rare herb you would take to increase your drama tolerance.

Theory 10: Saydrah is bad in bed.

Thu, 02 Feb 2012 18:17:09 -0700

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