I don't know if this is the right place to post this, but I'm looking for someone to craft me a single metal rose? (Paid Job)

SavedByInsanity · 1 month

1) I'm not really a gravy person though.

4) What if it's NEITHER a sir or madam, what would I do then?

SavedByInsanity · 1 month

Hmmm that would probably be my choice when I wanted to leave the company, but I would want them to be surprised. So I shouldn't tell them ahead of time that that is what I would do.

SavedByInsanity · 1 month

Everything is so true about this reply.

SavedByInsanity · 1 month

Well the company is a search engine on people. A sort of white pages type thing. So let's say that in that 4th question, it's concerning a customer that claims their was unauthorized payments to their credit card.

P.s. Thanks great answers.

rainbow_potato_chip · 1 month

People always come to me with ther ipod problems, whether it be a broken screen or something software related, for me to fix. I have never seen this type of error, ever. o:?

Early93rd · 2 months

Ok, maybe whining wasnt the exact right word to use, but he is still ranting, he says so himself. And he isnt just "saying" he sees Rick as someone who made a lot of mistakes, he flat out points out the characters idiocy. Which is all good by me, but there is a difference from poiting out all the things Rick did wrong and adding a "did anyone else notice all the mistakes he has made over time?" Versus how he actually said it, and ending it by trying to antagonize another whole group of fans (Rick fans). Hence my douchey reply to his douchey way of talking to other people. Just for the record, i couldn't care less for either Rick or Shane, im more of a Daryl fan. Yet im not going to point out all the stupid thing other FICTIONAL characters do only to end the post by encouraging others to "bring it"

My point is, don't rage over stuff thats not real. Get mad about cops beating suspects, messed up school systems, or any other real world thing, but dont burst a blood vessel over fiction. Hell, but if you insist, at least get mad at the writers that write the show, not the characters.

And you seem to have the same problem as OP, calling people names. Your last sentence doesnt even make sense. Point out to me where i said anything about me wanting him NOT to express his thoughts or opinions.

By rule of Reddit law, i have more upvotes than you on our original posts, so i win right? Sarcasm mutherfucker, do you get it?

Early93rd · 2 months

Lol youmadbro?

But really, chill out, enjoy the show, and stop fucking whining and appreciate the fact you have a show to watch every week that keeps you entertained enough to keep you coming back for more the following week.

SavedByInsanity · 2 months

TL;DR: Text her night before, turned off my phone immediately, spent most of the next day sleeping to avoid contact.

Hey, okay, so about a hour before her birthday I sent her a text. I did romantasize it a tiny bit, and mixed in my special happy birthday msg. I then proceeded to turn off my phone, so I wouldnt be tempted to hold a conversation with her if she replied right away.

So skip to next morning, my phone is still off. I watched a few awesome basketball games, so they kept me at bay. All the while I fought off the feeling to check my FB, just so I wouldnt be tempted to check up on her. Between the basketball and Reddit, I was able to stay calm until about 1pm.

At that point, I just forced myself to sleep, even though I wasn't tired. Luckily I had no dreams involving her. So now I'm awake and there is a little over a hour left in the day, but fortunately for me I don't have any urge to check up on her, and my phone is still off.

Once this day passes I'm sure any urge will be completely gone, but I may still stay off FB for a few days just to avoid any of her posts that may get to me . But yeah, thats about it. Ultimately, I'm happy that I didn't go through with getting her anything like I planned to at first.

SavedByInsanity · 2 months

Okay, I see what you mean. But what about what I say to her exactly? Should it be the generic "Happy Birthday, hope you have a great day!" Or would it be too much if i went along the lines of "I once told you I would love you forever, according to my watch, forever hasn't passed. Have a wonderful day, happy birthday." I know it may seem/is weird, but thats just the kind of lines I pull for ALL my female friends. I tend to romantisize all the little things.

SavedByInsanity · 2 months

I'll make a note not to lend you bus fare ಠ_ಠ

In all seriousness though, I do understand what you are saying. I can't say i completely like it, but i accept it as a solution to my problem. I shouldn't let people mistake my kindness for stupidity. You are right MisterKetchup.

I am totally going to be that kind of dad where his daughter just makes a puppy dog face, and I am going to get here anything. I could already see me doing that. But let that be another question for another day haha.

SavedByInsanity · 2 months

I won't lie, I secretly want to live out my life and be extremely successful with a gorgeous wife and her to have a mediocre one at best. I don't want her to have any medical problems or anything, but I think I would feel great relief in one day being like "If only you felt about me, how i felt about you, this could have been yours..."

Is that evil or normal? haha thanks again for all the advice.

SavedByInsanity · 2 months

What am I to do, when one day those legs call me, crying and saying that they miss me. That they need me. Am i just supposed to say i dont need them anymore, now that i have new bionic legs? Or do i stay compassionate? I am not one to hold grudges, unless you did something immensely threatening/hurtful to me, which isnt really the case here.

SavedByInsanity · 2 months

See, thats where i differ. I NEED to feel loved. I NEED to feel wanted. That's probably due to my parents neglecting me growing up, but thats just how i am now. Being self-reliant will only take me so far. And eventually my thought and old memories will overpower my will. I know im kind of sounding negative on everything right now, but trust me, talking this out is actually really helping me a lot.

p.s Thanks for staying up so late to talk with a stranger about their problems, i really appreciate it.

SavedByInsanity · 2 months

What do i do when she calls me, and is in tears because she was treated like crap by another guy? When she is begging me to go see her? It has happened before, and i crumbled. Only i didnt see it as crumbling, but instead as coming to her rescue. Thats my romantic side stepping in again.

What i need is an "FU" side of me, which i dont see ever developing.

P.S. Thanks for staying up and talking it out with me, i know its really late already. I truly appreciate it.

SavedByInsanity · 2 months

Sometimes i think, if i got hit by a car and died today, would she shed a tear? And i would like to think she would be crying her eyes out. But i fear that she just hasnt reached that point in her life where she values the little things. Sometimes she acts like there are no consequences to her actions, that she will always get what she wants, whenever she wants it. If she valued life and relationships like i do, then i would be able to be happy with her regardless of the status of our relationship.

SavedByInsanity · 2 months

Growing up, numbers were always my safe haven. Whenever my parents would fight, or i was scared, or depressed i would do multiplication and division in my head. I got to a point where i would borrow my older brothers math books and complete random pages. But as i grew older, math didnt do the trick anymore. So i started filling my free time with working on building circuits and drafting blue prints for imaginary buildings. But finally, for once, my real world problems were stronger than burrying myself in mindless tasks like stated above. Whats worse are dreams, thats one thing you cant control even if you wanted to. And the "afterburn" of a bad dream after you wake up, is just unbearable at times.

I came to realize, she was my hobby, she is what i thought about to drowned out my sorrow. But when she became the cause of it, i was and still am left stranded.

Sorry, i know i kind of vented just now without really saying anything /:

SavedByInsanity · 2 months

Friendships are fine, dont get me wrong, i believe thats the only reason i made it this far in the first place without jumping off a bridge. But they are just "bandaids" on a deep puncture wound, get me? I know i know i know, i need a new girl to replace her, but as of now, how should i be dealing with her? In a way where i dont completely stay enamored with her, or anything even close? Is it not possible?

SavedByInsanity · 2 months

Thats the thing though, im not an angry person. The way i have always been was that my anger fades almost instantly, and gets replaced by a different emotion. You punch me in the face, damn right im going to get pissed, but when i strike back ill be filled with remorse after the whole day is through. Thats a bad example, because that has never happened, and i have never even raised my voice at her or cursed at her. I respect her, thats it. I just cant stop respecting her.

SavedByInsanity · 2 months

Because i do care. Thats the whole purpose of forming relationships/friendships isnt it? To let those people you care about know you care about them?

SavedByInsanity · 2 months

She isnt my only feamle friend, something must have been lost in translation here. But yeah the other girl who told me to give her the gift was completely joking, thats how she is.

SavedByInsanity · 2 months

This is how i feel. Say i went to the doctor and he told me, "Well, you have cancerous tumors in both your legs, but the only way to get rid of them and save your life is to CUT YOUR OWN LEGS OFF, i cannot do it for you." Thats how i feel now, i know it must be me that takes action, but i fear the aftermath of feeling like a big piece of me is missing. Make sense?

SavedByInsanity · 2 months

Well both. I want her to think "wow he still cares, after all the bs i put him through, he still genuinely cares about me" Not "haha i have him wrapped around my finger, he will always be here when i need him for something".

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