I think you are making a huge deal out of this. You are complaining about r/aquariums, but at the same time saying you want to be on the side bar. Im subscribed to both as well as tons of other people. There is lots of talk about cycling and such over there but its something that people need to learn as there is an abundance of newcomers to r/aquariums everyday with no knowledge of the hobby. I mean the way some people go about it is wrong but there is always people like that in every sub reddit. Anyways I dont know where I am going with this.