We have had several discussions on the subject together, and actually I was relieved to discover that out limits are rather similar. No scat , father-daughter, age-play, knife-play, excessive amounts of pain, etc... I haves also thought about attending a munch to see what the bdsm community is like here in Delaware. Would it be worth doing this? Also, is there anything I should be mindful of while growing into a DS relationship? Thank you for the advice!