Same here. If I asked for a candy bar, my parents would give it to me, and then tell me "But you can't come crying to me when you get big and fat." But I didn't have resolve, so I just cried while eating my candy. Even today, I feel sad, or start crying when I eat candy. And I'm fat. But it's hard trying to work on it when all you ever heard when you were little was "When you're fat you can't com crying to me" and if I cried an told my mother that I wanted to change, but I needed help, she'd just say "Well you're fat now, nothing you can do about it."

Sorry, I didn't want to rant at you.