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The Internet's response to the announcement of Heath Ledger playing the Joker........We were so wrong... by RobertF23in movies

[–]Hokuboku 0 points1 point ago

Ha! Oh, I saw that movie and about died laughing. It was awful but it would have been 443049 times more terrible without Oldman and Peter Dinklage.

Peter Dinklage recently said in a NYTimes interview that the original version was much better. I don't see how that was possible but there you have it.

The Internet's response to the announcement of Heath Ledger playing the Joker........We were so wrong... by RobertF23in movies

[–]Hokuboku 113 points114 points ago

I remember fan girls freaking out when Gary Oldman was cast in Harry Potter. They didn't know a tried and true rule of movies: you can never go wrong with Gary Oldman.

I'm 17 and my mom just technically abandoned me. Is there anything I need to know that can help me. by zzenterin AskReddit

[–]Hokuboku 0 points1 point ago

It depends. I graduated in 2007 and have always been incredibly frugal as I grew up rather poor. I'm wary to buy a house though as I saw my parents lose not one home but now almost two. I prefer to rent especially as I live and work in NYS where owning a home would cost more than what I pay per month to a landlord.

I am a 18 year old Native American, born and raised on a native reserve in Canada. AMA by benhasakidin IAmA

[–]Hokuboku 1 point2 points ago

I was in Vancouver in February and I thought it was great how the province seems to celebrate their native people to some degree. Perhaps it just looked that way to me though as American who honestly rarely seems Native Americans acknowledged outside the idea that they run casinos and can sell you cigarettes tax free.

What showering as a couple is actually like. by wonderless2686in funny

[–]Hokuboku 6 points7 points ago

I'm thinking they both might be guys since, well, the username above is SpaceManAndy

Actor Nick Stahl (played John Connor in Terminator 3) reported missing by his wife by gdog799in entertainment

[–]Hokuboku 10 points11 points ago

I hope they find him, safe and sound. That being said, damn TMZ can't write for shit. "and there are concerns he may have gotten himself involved in some bad stuff."

I'm a cancer patient that just got home from chemo. This is my battle buddy! by The_Survivorin aww

[–]Hokuboku 0 points1 point ago

You seem to have a great attitude and a great spirit. I wish you loads of luck in your battle!

What is your "never again" brand, item, store, or restaurant ? by radbrad7in AskReddit

[–]Hokuboku 1 point2 points ago

I want to try it only because you can't get it in NY.

Facebook has too many rules for my liking. by sstteeffin WTF

[–]Hokuboku 1 point2 points ago

Facebook mostly only removes pictures if someone complained. So, if you every have one of your pictures flagged then you usually have one of your FB friends to thank for that

How many of you have refused marriage proposals and why did you do it? How did it happen? by SavvyVeein AskReddit

[–]Hokuboku 2 points3 points ago

Glad I'm not the only one who thought so.

Twox, let's see you and your mommas! by iraqthepartyin TwoXChromosomes

[–]Hokuboku 4 points5 points ago

You both are lovely and good luck to your Mom as she battles cancer. My thoughts are with her

Twox, let's see you and your mommas! by iraqthepartyin TwoXChromosomes

[–]Hokuboku 4 points5 points ago

Your grandma's facial expression is fantastic.

I know some of you ladies can relate (Post Secret ) by Eilish88in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Hokuboku 1 point2 points ago

In the same breath, I think it is safe to say that most little girls do think about having children when they're younger. I don't know if it is because we're given baby dolls as toys or because we haven't started questioning the idea of being a mother when we grow up or what.

Hell, I planned to name my non-existent kids Kelly and Zach thanks to Saved by the Bell. Then I became a teen and realized I didn't want kids. So, I did change my mind in a sense but I won't be changing it back. I'll be 28 this year and I've just found more reasons not to have kids than anything else.

I completely agree with your last paragraph but it does bother me how so many people seem so much quick to tell a woman she'll change her mind when it comes to having kids. Decent people don't tell gay people they'll change their minds and become straight, we don't go into churches and say "you'll all give up God soon enough!" Why is it people feel the right to tell women they don't know what they want in this regard?

I know some of you ladies can relate (Post Secret ) by Eilish88in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Hokuboku 9 points10 points ago

Believe me, my desire to never have kids is definitely a result of my being fully informed ;)

Of course, I also wonder how other people's decisions would vary if the United States had leave time for parents akin with what some countries in Europe sees. Example, most parents in Denmark take a year off between them when they have a baby, thanks to generous parental leave entitlements. In France, all families with at least two children under 18 are granted family allowances. And so on.

I know some of you ladies can relate (Post Secret ) by Eilish88in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Hokuboku 3 points4 points ago

People do have strong convictions that you can't change because they weighed their decision heavily and came to a conclusion. That doesn't make them close minded because they're not intolerant of others beliefs or unwilling to hear new information.

She merely knows what she wants and knows that her decision will not change, no matter what someone else believes or what new information appears. There are plenty of things in life that I will not change my stance on but I am more than happy to hear other people's thoughts on the subject.

You're pushing your anecdote on her and saying "I changed my mind, you could." You're the one currently being close minded as you can't open your mind to the possibility that she is perfectly content to not have kids due to a variety of reasons and that this is a decision she made which she has no intention to change.

I know some of you ladies can relate (Post Secret ) by Eilish88in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Hokuboku 8 points9 points ago

I think it is pretty close minded to repeatedly tell someone they might change their mind when they're adamant about their decision. Perhaps they kept an open mind as they weighed the pros and cons and then made a decision. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that and it does not make them close-minded to know what they do and do not want to do with their body

I know some of you ladies can relate (Post Secret ) by Eilish88in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Hokuboku 38 points39 points ago

Your first source just cites your second source. I definitely think it is an interesting study but there is a difference between a childless person and one who is childfree. The former may have wanted kids but sadly never had the chance. Childless merely means they don't have kids, not that they don't want them. Their obvious regret shows they did want kids. A childfree individual is also childless but wants to be.

Also, they've done studies that show that marital quality often drops after the transition into parenthood, and that there is an increase in marital happiness after the children leave home. In fact, the American Sociological Association conducted a study on this very topic and found that parents are more likely to be depressed than their childfree counterparts.

Of course, all of these studies can be taken with a grain of salt if you ask me. I think we just need to respect when someone says they don't want to have kids instead of telling them they will change their mind.

Personally, I have never wanted kids and I am happy in a long term relationship with a man who feels the same way. I do not want kids for a myriad of reasons, most of which getting older won't change. I hate when people tell me I might change my mind because it is implying they somehow know me better than I know myself.

Had sex with my best friend's husband. by pondscum79in confession

[–]Hokuboku 2 points3 points ago

The OP doesn't really mention what her friend was doing when her husband offered to drive her home. She could have said she was going to bed, etc. Whatever happened the husband didn't see his wife until the next day when he admitted to everything.

I am not saying this story isn't embellished (I have no idea, thb) but I can see it happening.

Had sex with my best friend's husband. by pondscum79in confession

[–]Hokuboku 1 point2 points ago

She may have passed out after the husband left. The OP says "he told her the next night when she got home from work." To me, that implies that when he got home she was already asleep

How to sum up Fox News by diana_rzin funny

[–]Hokuboku 0 points1 point ago

Pepsi mixes damn well with Kraken rum though

Reddit, what do you currently have copied? ctrl+v now! by airjam21in AskReddit

[–]Hokuboku 0 points1 point ago

"triggers the same sensation of pleasure in the brain as food or money,"

From an article about why people brag about themselves.

A picture of my puppy taken a few months ago, when my wife decided he needed to wear a raincoat. by slinky317in aww

[–]Hokuboku 3 points4 points ago

You didn't say it would kill the pet but I was addressing comments beyond yours. You did seem less concerned about the dog being injured and more concerned that putting them in silly costumes is demeaning both to the dog and the owner. You also even admitted that this probably doesn't apply to the OP but posted it anyway.

In fact, a raincoat is actually an article of clothing recommended by some vets as many designed for dogs include reflective tape for greater visibility – a nice safety feature.

There are even articles of clothing for dogs to prevent sunlight from hitting their skin because too much of it can be dangerous and some dogs are prone to getting burned from the sun. There are breeds who really do require coats for long walks in the winter.

Of course, in all these cases it is always best to consult your actual vet to be on the safe side. And that's who we should leave it to, the owner and their vet. Unless a picture shows a pet in clear and present danger then I just don't understand why so many commenters assume the owner is terrible and it is their job to educate them.

A picture of my puppy taken a few months ago, when my wife decided he needed to wear a raincoat. by slinky317in aww

[–]Hokuboku 5 points6 points ago

I'm all for people pointing out legitimate concerns but man there seems to be a lot of "THIS WILL KILL YOUR PET WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!?!" comments on r/aww lately.

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