do girls feel like its easier to sleep after they cum?

moreoralsex · 7 months

I do because generally when I can't sleep it's because I have a million things running through my mind. When I have sex, all that goes right out the window and all I think about is how amazing it feels. After, when I am still relaxed and drifting on the high, I can go right to sleep.

AZeldenrust · 7 months

Hell yes. It helps me relax and get to sleep, however if I'm REALLY stressed out, I have absolutely no physical desire for sex, even though I mentally desire it.

nextweeks · 7 months

The reason people find it easier to to sleep after they cum is because of the release of neurotransmitters in the brain that coincide with the orgasm. One of them is serotonin which also helps control sleep cycles.

One of my psychology professors in college actually recommended sex as a natural sleep aid.

LoveBy137 · 7 months

For me it depends, sometimes it gets me super sleepy. Unfortunately, other times getting off wakes me up. That makes it really crappy as a reliable sleep aid as there is always the threat that it will wake me right up. Stupid masturbation roulette...

Maxxters · 7 months

I find it is, yes. I was actually tossing and turning for a solid hour last night before getting up and grabbing a vibrator. Had some fun for a few mins and the next thing I knew, my alarm was going off :)

wildclaire · 7 months

There have been several times I've masturbated simply to go to sleep, not because I'm horny. There's plenty of times it's for both though. It's just relaxing and, as others have said, it clears my mind. I suppose I could learn to meditate instead to declutter my thoughts, but masturbation comes with an orgasm so it wins.

jumperkid400 · 7 months

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cacophonousdrunkard · 7 months

my girlfriend definitely does NOT. she becomes a buzzing lunatic of hyperactity and immediately starts basically doing top rope suplex moves onto me and shes damn lucky i think its still cute at 3am when i have work the next day.

Layze · 7 months

My girlfriend goes into what I like to call a "Sex Coma" basically this is the immediate time after a nice sexy time session. She catches her breath and has a nap and that gives me anywhere from 20-45 mins to get in a game of league of legends and make a snack before she wakes up. Also Mary Jane after never does any wrong to keep her coma going longer.

sinistersilkmerchant · 7 months

I'm going to be the outlier here and say that most of the time, it wakes me up. I find that my mind is cleared and I can suddenly think properly and seriously about things. Often I'll have the urge to read something difficult, or do math, or draw. This effect will last about an hour or two after good sex, ten minutes or so after just masturbating.

If I drink some good coffee right after good sex, I can pull an all nighter and produce some really good work, homework- wise or sometimes just reading wikipedia articles for fun. Good sex is even better in the morning, obviously, because I usually have trouble peeling myself off the mattress. It's about the only way I can wake up refreshed ;)

Callistobeaut · 7 months

It depends. One or two...three relaxed ones, oh yes sleep comes very nicely. One, two,...four or more during a crazy, rip your clothes off, wake-the-neighbors sex session...not really. Leaves me restless. Maybe wanting more?

Rachel2point0 · 7 months

I usually just want to go again.

PropitiousPanda · 7 months

If I can't sleep sometimes I'll masturbate. But, I don't normally make a habit out of it. I have to masturbate for a long time normally before I am tired enough to fall asleep though (normally at least 15 orgasms or so). It's easier for me to fall asleep cuddling after sex though.

Masturbation is just a cure to all ailments for me.

shebillah · 7 months

In my high school years, I masturbated nearly every single night even if I wasn't horny, it was just routine. Now that I'm 20 I'm almost always sleepy enough to go right to sleep as long as nobody is yelling in the room or outside the window.

Kurt306 · 7 months

I wish I got tired after sex. Once it's all said and done and I have rested I get all wired and want to hang out and do whatever.

jumperkid400 · 7 months

Don't think its blood pressure, more so the release of endorphins and feel good chemicals in your brain. I may be dumb though.

mysexytimeacct · 7 months

Not only is it easier to sleep, I sleep better too! My SO has caught me many times asleep with my vibrator still in hand because I was just so exhausted (in a great way) after my orgasm.

mrsshmoopes · 7 months

Cum and cuddle is the usual for me, or take a bath if my husband isn't into cuddling right then. Either way it usually ends in a nap before too long.

doogytaint · 7 months

If I can't get to sleep at night, I masturbate and pass out. Sometimes I wake with my hand still in my underwear. After sex, naps are my favorite. I've fallen asleep with my ass in the air, still in doggy-style position, for hours.

The only down side to that is that I wake up with cum in my thighs. Not a nice feeling. What's worse, is that I scratch in my sleep and it would dry under my nails. Not a good idea to rub your eyes when that happens, not a good idea at all.

ashley393 · 7 months

Seriously coming is amazing, I feel it reduces anxiety and makes me want to sleep, even if I'm just on bottom afterwards I just want a bottle of water and to stretch out in bed!

thegrumpysnail · 7 months

I wish this happened to me. :( I find that more often than not that it wakes me up and invigorates me. I will feel really relaxed/good, but have a difficult time falling asleep for a while.

Ummdoesthisthingwork · 7 months

I fall asleep twice as fast after awesome sex, but if I am to stay awake, I'm plenty energized.

ssnakeggirl · 7 months

I've masturbated to help me sleep since I was a child.

hunnii_bunnii · 7 months

Yes, whenever I can't sleep I masturbate. I fall asleep within a few minutes.

ShadeDeMonesko · 7 months

Of course, considering that I have been going at it for quite a while, I will be so tired and relaxed that sleep is the only thing that I will want to do.

Especially if I am with my SO. Nothing fights my sleeping problems better than falling asleep next to him during an afterglow :)

allybally · 7 months

Yes, it exhausts me and sometimes I do it just to fall asleep.

However, if I wait too long to let myself relax, like if I fight the initial sleepiness, I get a wave of energy that'll get me out of bed just as quickly.

Ohnomysweet · 7 months

Definitely! I've fallen asleep while masturbating loads of times.

My ex has lots of photos of this happening.

Memento1979 · 7 months

Just asked the Mrs. She confirmed that yes, she schlicks as an aide to falling asleep.

40crew · 7 months

My girlfriend always want to talk after sex...

TheUnicornHuntress · 7 months

When I do finally sleep, I sleep well. But, I am very amped up for a long time after sex. My heart continues to beat faster than normal, I am still flushed. My vulva still full of blood. I remain in a state of ecstasy for usually at least an hour. I seem to be tired physically but mentally energetic. If you're thinking it's because I didn't cum, it's not. I always have multiples, too many to count. I don't mind if my husband wants to sleep after. We don't usually cuddle after sex, we save that for non sexy times.

erinbeth · 7 months

No - I actually feel energized after. I feel like I am in the minority.

FaKeShAdOw · 7 months

I can use it as both a sleep aid and an energizer. It depends on what I'm doing already or if I'm looking forward to going out or some shit.

Warpedme · 7 months

All humans do. I wish I could remember the hormone that is released during orgasm that causes the drowsy but both males and females produce it.

Sexy_Vegan_Pants · 7 months

I DO fall asleep after. I have to be active otherwise I feel really sleepy and can't get out of it :(

[deleted] · 7 months

Totally. I get knocked out.

coconutcorey · 7 months

Oh completely. I am zonked out afterwards.

fiestabooger · 7 months

my last girlfriend was out like a light almost the second sex ended.

Lalox · 7 months

When I first discovered myself it was sort of a ritual to masturbate before bed. I always came gloriously and fell immediately into a deep, satisfying sleep. Still do it, though it's not always a pre-bed/sleep thing.

indeedimasian · 7 months

It's easy for me to sleep if I masturbate, but generally: after sex, after I've come, I'm really sleepy. But then I have to make my bf come... and after that, I'm really restless and can't fall asleep for the life of me.

Neobo · 7 months

I'm male and I've never been sleepy after sex. I've never quite understood that whole thing exactly. I understand the explanations behind it, but I can't really put myself into that scenario in my head. I'm too happy and energetic in my mind after it. My body has been a bit worn out from time to time, but I've never been ready to sleep.

I'm a bit weird?

nastygal · 7 months

I do this often. It feels great.

fullerenedream · 7 months

Yup, it makes me relaxed and sleepy.

zorkie · 7 months

sometimes it helps me sleep, other times it wakes me up and i want more :P

probablynotthere · 7 months

It used to. Now, I'll be sedated for about 5 minutes before getting a sudden burst of energy. So it's harder to sleep now.

Yodakicksass · 7 months

I think it's about the time of the day almost, when I have sex at night, in bed I practically pass out afterwards, although if i don't go to sleep then I just get horny again.... However, morning sex gets me going, and is a nice beginning to a day :)

EcureuilSecret · 7 months

Hells yeah. I don't always need to sleep after sex, but I always could if I was just left to lie there. I love a post-sex nap with the boy during the day.

Brinstar · 7 months

Here and there. I know when I can't sleep I schlick...and then I can.

randomadd · 7 months

F: After failed sex last night, yes definitely easier

0102030405 · 7 months

yup. I feel like I'm getting addicted :P

tiffmck · 7 months

It goes both ways for me. In the morning, I feel more awake after sex/orgasm and at night, I get sleepy and relaxed.

KissMeAlice · 7 months

I have severe insomnia. My husband use to give me oral sex every night, even if it took an hour to reach orgasm in order to help me fall asleep. Worked like a charm.

windsockk · 7 months

Yes and yes

Ice-Queen · 7 months

I always get super duper tired after I cum. So if i cum before the guy i just want him to finish asap because i can barely stay awake

chrys666 · 7 months

Oh my goodness yes! especially if I have had a particularly stressful day. It is a complete release. and the best way to get a nap in.

BondageBabe · 7 months

Cumming makes me very dowsy and I sleep no problem :P

oppaihime · 7 months

Goodness yes, everytime my boyfriend and I fool around, even just a bit, it always at least takes the breath out of me. I'm not quite sure why though.

Sovht · 7 months

Not me. Usually, I have more energy after sex. I get really keyed up and excited and want to go again ... and again. Eventually, if we keep this going for a while, then I'll get tired.

supermermaidthing · 7 months

absolutely.

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