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[–]PyouA 5 points6 points ago

It's always better for the girl to have you cornered than vice versa. So when you start talking to her slowly turn your body so eventually she is facing inwards and you are facing outwards. I would say try not to make it obvious - but I've done it a bunch of times where I thought I was being really obvious and no one really picked up on it - so don't worry about that. Just slowly shift your body while you are talking and let her move hers until you have a good position.

I don't know why it matters - but when I've gotten a girl to have me cornered I'm pretty much unstoppable while when I'm the one out of position I'm pretty AFC.

[–]freshpow925 1 point2 points ago

What do you mean inwards and outwards?

[–]PyouA 2 points3 points ago

Back toward the wall looking out towards the bar/club/coffee shop = outward

face to the wall = inward

[–]SoBoredAtWork 10 points11 points ago*

I have a gf now and have been out of the game for a while, but towards the end I've started using more direct approach.

With proper confidence, I found this to work very well. Just go up to a girl and go, "Hey. I'm ____. You're the cutest girl ever, for real. Let's hang." Or whatever. And move from there. Strong eye contact is key.

Or make it a hit and run type of thing. "Hey. You're so fucking cute. Let's get out for a drink sometime." Her (shocked): "Ummm. Okay(?)" You: "Cool, let me take your number" and hand her your phone w/ number ready to be entered.

Worked pretty well, as it's ballsy and unexpected. Try it out.

Also, people are going to say, "this works only if you're attractive". Not true, it works because you display confidence and it's out of the ordinary & unexpected.

[–]fodtp 20 points21 points ago

This only works if you are attractive.

[–]SoBoredAtWork 2 points3 points ago

people are going to say, "this works only if you're attractive". Not true, it works because you display confidence and it's out of the ordinary & unexpected

[–]Yorkinator 1 point2 points ago

display confidence and it's out of the ordinary & unexpected

= attractive

[–]DrLio 5 points6 points ago

You my friend, speak the truth, upvote!

[–]seydar 1 point2 points ago

Yeah, I've given up on subtlety. Either they get the hint and you didn't have to be subtle, or they didn't get it and you basically didn't do anything. So I increase the success rate of my subtleness to 100% by not being subtle at all.

[–]directrespect -1 points0 points ago

Horse Girl!