So a lot of people replying are telling puredemo to stop whining and to grow up. I strongly believe that what he is doing is right and I am writing this to help prove his point and I guess to some extent, to try and convince people to taking his side.

So here is how the conversation went down: 1) Some guy told the OP to send the ex's bf to jail 2) puredemo made a remark about how it is dumb to send someone to jail for sleeping with a 15 year old when they were 18. (senior in high school with a sophomore) 3) guy from 1 said it was better to be safe than sorry.

Up to here, everything seems fine. Sharkydog made some very good points (I have no idea why he is downvoted so much. You have my upvotes good sir).

4) puredemo makes a Simpsons joke. Sharkydog said in (3) to think of the childs safety and puredemo's remark is something that Helen Lovejoy(from the simpsons) always says on the show: mid paragraph

5) bluequail calls puredemo a pedo.

From what I can see, this is the first attack. Puredemo hasn't done anything wrong except give his opinion. He didn't attack bluequail or downvote him because this was the first time bluequail said anything. Puredemo might have downvoted this, he might have even used a few accounts to do it, but calling someone a pedophile for giving his a pretty good (or even bad) arrangement and making a simpsons reference is something that most people would downvote anyways.

6) Puredemo repeats his point and attacks back a little bit.

7) Bluequail says that he wants proof that the ages are correct and that the mother is probably a liar. He adds on: "btw, I can not only downvote you back, motherfucker - I can ban you from the subreddit"

This is where I think you can really see that Bluequail is the "bad guy." The original post gave the ages of 18 and 15. Before giving advice to the OP to tell him to look into this, he calls out puredemo and threatens to ban him. A normal person in their right mind should reply something along the lines of: Even though you are right that blah blah blah, we do not know that these are the actual ages. The guy is a registered pedophile and the mother has lied in the past. The OP should blah blah blah and do blah blah blah for this outcome and blah blah blah for that outcome (Sorry for all the blahs). It is better to be safe then sorry when it comes to the OP's child.

If a non moderator does this. Fine. We can assume he is either a troll, from the westboro church, or just likes to jump to conclusions/arguing and believing that his opinion is the only right one. However, bluequail is a MODERATOR. He should handle situations like this magnitudes better. He called someone a pedophile for no real reason and he threaten to ban puredemo when all he did was give proof. Such a big threat from downvoting bluequail a few times? really? bluequail says in the PM from banning him that it was not from the downvotes but from whining. At this point, puredemo was not whining and the threat was clearly made. Saying you will ban someone for so little is not something that you can do by mistake. It is like kicking a baby and saying that you didn't mean to at a later point in time. I mean later on, you will for sure think back and say "I really did not mean to" but what you did has been done. If I was a parent, I would not let you touch my baby ever again. Kicking a baby like that/ telling someone you will ban them is not something that you just do by mistake. You do it at the time and you mean it. At this point, most people would appologize like crazy for kicking the baby but from what I can see, bluequail keeps attacking puredemo. He did not once say that the banning was over the top and that he was sorry.

I have so much more to say but it is getting really late and I need to sleep. Soooo, in conclusions: puredemo is wrong for everything he said to the moderator and how rude this message is. bluequail is ever more wrong for... everything. My opinion on what should happen: puredemo should continue to get banned and he needs to get another warning from reddit and not just a subreddit. bluequail should not be allowed to moderate any subreddits and should be banned from that subreddit. Those two need to sit in a corner for 20minutes as a timeout punishment... and everyone who reads this should go and give karma to sharkydog until he is not negative because he is person who did everything right in this argument.

Sorry for all the typos and bad grammar... like I said, it is really late.