Thats an interesting question, and one I've actually thought about before. Now, and I may be wrong here, but in my experience of dealing with deaf people, the ones who have grown up with a deaf family and had a good home experience actually have good relationships with hearing people. Like I know more than one deaf person, who as a child was beaten and abused emotionally because of the fact that he or she could not hear and do things like everyone else could. It's these people, when they discover the deaf community, cling on to it with all they can because it almost fills a hole that was made by childhood trauma. It can cause pride to the extent that you wouldn't give your child a CI. (Cochlear implant) However, in my father's family, half of my cousins are hearing, and half are deaf. None of my deaf cousins have gotten CI's or anything of the sort. One or two of my cousins may have worn a hearing aid for a while like 7 years ago, but not important. It's the same reason why any hearing parent would want to give a CI to their deaf child. Parents want to share a first language with their children. Sorry for the long response lol